The 9 Types
Six of these are approach obstacles — the ways people keep others at arm's length. Three are the healthy ways in. Find yours, or diagnose the person who left you on 'delivered'.
🏰The Fortress“Warm crowd, closed gate.”→
👻The Ghost“Everyone's favorite person to text into the void.”→
📝The Critic“Catches feelings, files complaints.”→
🔥The Firestorm“From soulmates to strangers in one afternoon.”→
🧪The Tester“Runs background checks on warmth.”→
🐺The Lone Wolf“The door isn't locked. There is no door.”→
☀️The Natural“People just like you. It's almost unfair.”→
🌱The Slow Burner“Quiet at hello. Wide open after.”→
🔋The Anchor“No tests, no walls, no funerals.”→